Dating safely

Romance scams cost UK victims millions each year, and people over 40 are often targeted. Here's how we protect you — and how to protect yourself.

What we do

• Messaging only opens after you've both liked each other.
• Every photo is reviewed by a person before others can see it.
• Messages mentioning money, crypto, gift cards or moving to other apps are flagged to our team.
• We only show an approximate region — never your town or distance.
• You can block or report anyone instantly.

Red flags

• Anyone who asks for money, for any reason, however convincing.
• Pressure to move to WhatsApp or Telegram quickly.
• Declaring strong feelings very fast, or always having a reason not to video call.
• Claims of working overseas, on an oil rig, or in the military abroad.

Need help?

If you've lost money, contact your bank immediately and report it to Action Fraud on 0300 123 2040. In an emergency, call 999.